Sex is an “exact art and a subtle science”, if one must quote Professor Severus Snape. Despite there not being any clear-cut formulae, there are however certain things in bed that are big turn-offs for the female sex. This is primarily because the needs, wants and expectations of men and women vary quite a lot when it comes to sex. For women good sex (sadly) still means that they aren’t hurt, while for men it meant they had orgasmed. Notice the difference?
Here we have tried to put forward ten essential habits of men, which are out of bounds for women/hated by women:
1. It is not porn
Expectations differ. Just like it can’t just be a Princess story out of Disney for women, for men it cannot be porn. Let’s get realistic, guys. Let’s have appropriate expectations from now on.
2. Being passive while she’s riding rodeo
This again, is one of the many violations of exciting power games during sex. The Cowgirl/Reverse Cowgirl is exciting for the woman because she takes control, but that doesn’t mean you become a one-trick mechanical pony and just laze. Use your hands, mouth and eyes, guys; that’s what they’re there for.
3. Keep the dirty-talking to a minimum
No it doesn’t work. No one wants to be a “dirty girl” except perhaps the women you fantasised about in your lonely teens. And if you don’t want to relive those days, you better stop.
4. Thrusting your solider in her mouth
Blowjobs are a power-game. Try not to suggest. Let her take her time and get to it when she wants to. And thrusting inside her mouth hurts her and that’s not helping anyone in the room.
5. Indulge in foreplay
Simple rule of thumb: whatever time you think is necessary for good foreplay, triple it. Yes you heard me. Foreplay not only gets the juices flowing, but it also makes things easier for both parties because there’s adequate lubrication.
6. Take protection seriously
This not only keeps unwanted Jr away along with STD’s, but also makes her think that you take her safety seriously. Do not ditch protection, especially if you two just started dating.
7. Sensitive areas
Don’t try to show too much aggression to her privates; especially her delicate areas. This is because they are full of nerve-endings, which makes any injury to them, very, very painful.
8. Do not start your migration south immediately
Learn to be the King in the North for a while. Like we said earlier, triple the time. That would make her wetter and the resultant sex more enjoyable.
9. Post-banging-session affection
Three words: “IT IS IMPORTANT”. Just remember. It makes your chances to have an encore higher.
10. Her pleasure
Take it seriously. Do what you have to do, but get her to come. This will make you quite the star in her eyes.