We all want out partner’s attention to never shift from us. But is love enough for that? We know it doesn’t make the cut. There should be a passion in your love, and obsession that rules your partner. But how can we ensure that in this world where model photographs and tinder is just a click away? It’s not going to be easy. But if you want to capture your man and mark him as your territory, then you need to do something about it. It takes effort, but for the love to last, it’d be worth it.
These are some ways you can your man addicted to you:
Be mysterious, be alluring
Mysteries need solving. And as long as they remain unsolved, it will remain in your head. That’s why detective novels are still in fashion. But for your Sherlock, you need to be the mystery. Nobody likes it simple. If you are not mysterious enough, your allure goes away and your man will stop thinking about you. But if you keep up your unpredictability and try and be a puzzle, you are going to be running in your partner’s head all the time even when you are not even there!
That’s not all to it. It stems from a deeper fact that men love strong-willed and independent women. And who else could challenge them more than the mysterious lot among us. So keep yourself a riddle, and watch your man go star-struck and almost mad to try and unveil you. There’s the thrill in every relationship.
There’s already too much negativity in the world. Now who would want another pessimistic addition in their life, especially as someone worth considering for an important portion? No one! A man wants a strong and resolved woman who could support him as he tries to conquer the world. He wants someone who is so respectful that everyone looks up to her. This is something that will make every man be proud of you. Men like risk-takers who would go out and live on the edge, knowing that everything will be all right in the end. Ain’t that the perfect partner?
Be hard to get
When you are hard to get, men will love to chase and get you. That’s addiction. So be a little feisty. It’s easy to act hard to get. A bit of fierceness and a little purpose, and there you have your man hooked to you. Men love when women are hard to get – it gives them a purpose to go for something that they find worthy of their time. They discover themselves and will start putting forward their best behavior just to please you. And psychology 101 says, if they do it enough number of times, it becomes one of their habits. So, you are practically making them grow!
When you are one of those hard to get women, you know how to get a man to drool over you. You are independent and strong, and when you have those qualities a man knows you are worth it. They are going to remember how much they struggled to get you and would really be afraid of leaving you. But it’s not going to be there without any effort from you. It’s hard work and requires a lot of patience. Above all, it needs love.
When you are both in love, you are already there for each other. But to be addicted to each other takes that love to a whole new level. So, start putting in some effort, girl, and capture your man’s attention forever.