Whatever life offers, the greatest advantage we get is to decide whether we are victims or survivors. Those who choose survival over suffering aren’t only the strongest but live with no regrets and are obviously much happier.
Swiss psychiatrist and author, Elisbeth Kübler-Ross, once eloquently stated: “The most beautiful people we have known are those who have known defeat, known suffering, known struggle, known loss, and have found their way out of the depths. These persons have an appreciation, sensitivity, and an understanding of life that fills them with compassion, gentleness, and a deep loving concern. Beautiful people do not just happen.”
Nice people believe in excess and their way of dealing with all sorts of people is endless forgiveness and boundless love.
They do not discriminate and may end up even going beyond their emotional and social faculties. They believe in surviving every hurdle by love and pure sincerity and being nice comes naturally to them. And this is exactly how they end up hurting themselves. Nice people themselves come from dark and therefore know how it feels without light. They try to pour light into others’ lives as much as they are capable of. Nice people have been through a lot and suffered on the hands of shitty toxic people, sticky situations and so on. They have been treated like a doormat by the ones they loved so much.
After enduring so much hurt, they still chose to be empathetic and loving.
This depicts how much they have the capacity to endure and yet not be bitter. They have learnt not just how to succeed but to overcome obstacles. “Nice people have learned the hard way that disadvantages are opportunities for growth.”
Nice people with their empathetic skills know how to aid a recovering person and how to love other broken people.
They adapt quickly to their surroundings and help others accommodate as well. They might look as if they are weak or docile but they have strong sense of affection and companionship. And this makes them headstrong individuals. They have been tormented and so they will never make anyone go through emotional or physical pain ever. “Nice people choose to be survivors who help others stay afloat.”
In the course of life, people come across many hurdles and have to pass through each in order to keep going. However, people who are nice, compassionate and empathetic not only take care of their lives but also aid others in achieving their goals. They become the helping hand which they wanted in their lives. They have suffered and got through it and therefore know the best in terms of facing obstacles.